
The
culture of Punjab has its own
unique fragrance. It is
unmatched. The scent of this
fertile land is such in which
the warmth of you-are-my-own is
inborn. All communities hold
pride in their traditions and
the Punjabis whose
open-mindedness has become
proverbial also hold their
unique tradition of hospitality
high in their estimation as well
as in their values of life. A
guest in Punjab is considered as
a representative sent by God.
Hospitality promotes brotherhood
and holds a special significance
for bringing people closer; love
and kindness flow out of it. In
Punjab they say that the more
you love the more it multiplies
and you get back many more times
the kindness that you give.
The land of Punjab, which is
described as the land of Gurus,
Pirs and the warriors, as a
matter of faith believes in
earning honest living through
hard labour and in sharing the
fruits of this labour with
others, without expecting any
returns. Hospitality is a living
aspect of Punjabi culture, which
is shown even to the migratory
birds that sojourn here.
Punjabis not only profess and
practice hospitality in their
own land but also carry it,
untainted and virgin, to the
lands where they immigrate.
There is no country in the world
where Punjabis have not created
waves.
Hospitality binds people
together in bonds of love; it
increases circles of friendship
and makes the atmosphere aglow
with human warmth. Punjabis have
proved this in all corners of
the world in seemingly alien
lands and because of these
qualities they have been
willingly accepted as useful,
responsible citizens of the
world, warm neighbours and good
friends.
When the British landed in
Punjab as victors they were
astonished to find that every
little village and every mohalla
in the larger cities of Punjab
had special places to receive
and honour guests, and that the
people of this land were
irrepressible extroverts. The
District Gazetteers of the time
bring forth Punjab's generous
hospitality in bold relief.
Although Punjab has received
hospitality as God's gift, on
account of recent disturbances
and rising prices it is coming
under strain in the towns and
cities. However, in villages it
still reigns supreme. It resides
in the soul of rural folk. Reach
a home in the middle of the
night, the ladies will happily
get up and cook fresh food for
you. You can't pass by certain
villages without enjoying
hospitality. You'll be looked
after so long as you stay. You
will be warmly sent off, not
empty-handed, but with a gift of
whatever is available in the
house.
Like all other human traits of
the people of Punjab, their
hospitality is also guileless,
rare and intense. It is a
ubiquitous theme of Punjabi
folklore. When the crow, sitting
atop the roof, crows, or dough
when it is being kneaded
bubbles, folk songs tell us that
these are auspicious omens that
mean a guest is on his way.
There are several other sayings
that speak of the pleasures
derived by looking after
visitors.
Good habitat, laughter,
playfulness and love from the
environment in which hospitality
grows. May the culture of this
blessed land of the five rivers
perpetuate and ever grow.
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